We've just finished the third meeting (15.V) of the premarital course. Like usual, it took place on Tuesday at 8 pm. This time we're inspecting the ways of showing emotions and communicating. It seems to be well known that we shouldn't "stifle" bad or negative emotions. But we forget often about the form of expressing them - we all need to shape our character in this area - it doesn't matter how old we are. The priest alsoshowed us that trying to solve any misunderstanding with screaming and being too emotional always brings contrary results to what we expect - we will get more carrying on a calm conversation. For his own example, he was showing us that it was very profitable to curb his negative feelings. He said: "The human being is plastic till death", i.e. we can form, improve and develop ourselves as long as we live :) So, it seems to be untrue what we hear very often: "I'm too old to change", "It's too late", "I'm formed already and I can't change" - it's not true! - we can change; it's harder for adult, but it's possible!
We inspected also a problem of upbringing in today's world because it influences our development very much. The feelings of love, anger or jealous are inborn for a human, but empathy must be acquired while developing of a personality. In this area, tutors – especially parents – play a crucial role.
Although the weather was cloudy and rainy, the meeting was as nice as usual and its content pointed the new light on the essence of our relationship.
We inspected also a problem of upbringing in today's world because it influences our development very much. The feelings of love, anger or jealous are inborn for a human, but empathy must be acquired while developing of a personality. In this area, tutors – especially parents – play a crucial role.
Although the weather was cloudy and rainy, the meeting was as nice as usual and its content pointed the new light on the essence of our relationship.
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